Discover my life purpose..

Biasalakan awal awal tahun ni ramai la yang buat new year wishes,resolution la, goal la macam macam la termasukla i . :D. hmmm apart from my resolution listing there is 2 things i really need myself to improve.

1. Passionate

2. Affectionate 

As per-my understanding ' passionate' ni maksudnya Passion (from the Ancient Greek verb πάσχω (paskho) meaning to suffer) is a term applied to a very strong feeling about a person or thing. Passion is an intense emotion compelling feeling, enthusiasm, or desire for something. Maksud 'affectionate' pula - Affection or fondness is a "disposition or rare state of mind or body"^[1] that is often associated with a feeling or type of love. It has given rise to a number of branches of philosophy and psychology concerning: emotion (popularly: love, devotion etc.); disease; influence; state of being (philosophy);^[2] and state of mind (psychology). "Affection" is popularly used to denote a feeling or type of love, amounting to more than goodwill or friendship. - laa bukan susah pun nak cari pemahaman erti ni 'GOOGLE' je . By the way tis 2 things la yg i nak buat lebih tahun ni dan insyallah tahun tahun yang seterusnya.

Mcam yang kita semua tau we must hav passion in life mcm perasaan excited la terhadap our kehidupan sehairan kalau tak surely kita akan get bore wit life so easily. passion ni macam life energy for us to achieve our dream. Best tau jadi passionate person ni, we wil enjoy quality relationship and surely bole dapat ramai kawan lagi. kita juga enjoy an enthusiasm for life that can last a lifetime. best kan!!

But, how to develop passion? aahhhaaa everyone has their own unique path to developing greater passion in their lives. so kita kena la discover and  experiment with different strategies to find something that works for you. 

1st discover wat is ur dream.Follow your dreams.  it's what you're supposed to do in life! bila kita excited and know wat is our goal aka dreams thn passion tu akan keluar lepas tu try to evaluate your priorities in life.

And thn it's time to get more in touch with your spiritual side, banyakan solat dekatkan diri dgn Allah Swt. insyallah kita akan lebih bersemangat. Bila kita dekatkan diri dgn Allah Swt insyallah kehidupan kita akan lebih tenang dan pergaulan dan perhubungan kita dgn loves one pun akan lebih baik.

Initially, it's important to make yourself a priority. Commit to taking a portion out of each day for yourself no matter how busy you are. It could be as few as 15 minutes, but it'll make a difference. Tis year i'm gonna be selfish and dun want to think much on silly crappy things and gonna spice up my life!!
Done talking about 'passionate' now we talk pula about ' affection'. Affection ni rasanya perkara yg selalu kita buat tetapi ada juga yang tak buat sebab mungkin tak biasa dan tak pandai nak show terutamanya lelaki ;D
Perbuatan like say 'i love u' to our partner tu show affection la tu. buy flowers/chocolate dll to our partner. simple text msg asking ' dah lunch ke blum?" pun dikira affection. simple things like tis la people selalu take for granted kan. hugs and kisses before sleep,before goin to work all tis show affection.
So tis year i nak alert on all tis simple things and make my relationship with my hubby more passionate and affectionate :D .. macam perpatah org putih cakap ' for things to change, we must first change ourselves. When we take responsibility for what we get and change ourselves, everything and everybody else will change with us! ;D